Limited spots available!
Daunting dates, intimidated men, long hours in the lab, a ticking biological clock—whatever your dating situation may be, it’s time for a much-needed change. I offer two options for that focused attention you need to stop feeling lost at sea in your dating life and start leveling up: an attitudinal assessment and debrief and an eight-session coaching relationship.
Energy Leadership Index (ELI) attitudinal assessment, aka “You are here”
About This Package
If you want to learn what the hell is working ineffectively in your dating life, start with an ELI assessment. This is the beginning of the journey that takes you from “lost at sea” to “on the path,” giving you a strong foundation to figure out where you’re going. It’s a measurable attitudinal assessment that allows you to dip your toes into coaching without a huge commitment.
When you’re on a date, you’re exploring to see if you have chemistry and compatibility. This experience is the same—it’s a chance to learn about yourself and see if you and coaching get along. This is the first step to embarking on your dating adventure. You have found yourself.
More about the ELI assessment:
How it works:
- Order/schedule a 70-question assessment and debrief
- Receive the assessment in your email inbox
- Take the assessment
- Holly will debrief you for up to two transformational hours, during which she will take notes (if done via phone) for you to refer to later. If we talk over Zoom, we can record the session.
- Digest the information and decide whether or not to embark on a coaching relationship with Holly (below). If you decide to commit to a coaching relationship, pay the difference and welcome aboard!
= $99 investment
Embark on a Coaching Relationship
About This Package
Dating sites and apps are not working for you. Your dates are going nowhere, or when everything seems to be going well, the person you’d been seeing suddenly disappears. You’re attracting poor quality men who don’t seem to respect that smart brain of yours. Your biological clock is ticking while you waste time on other people’s shitty dating advice.
The “Coaching Relationship” gives you the comfort of a virtual wing woman while you’re feeling insecure or confused in your dating life, giving you the security you need as you get past the bullshit, bushwhack through sexism, and enter the dating world with a different, more empowered mindset, while maintaining your smart, successful, and fiercely independent STEM woman ways. Get focused attention, unveil your blind spots, stop wasting time, and up your dating game fast.
We’ll chuck that shitty advice out the window, get past your gremlins, and start with a clean slate. Here’s what else we can do, but the universe is the limit and the agenda is entirely up to you:
- Rework your dating profile into something magnetic
- Learn to comfortably bring a conversation off a dating site/app and into a real-life date
- Role-play dating conversations so you can feel more confident and at ease during the moment of truth (and learn to use “I” statements when discussing sensitive subjects)
- Guided meditation to clear your mind and start thinking like a dating superstar
- Self-love and empathy exercises (e.g., learning to decode “man talk” and see things from his point of view)
- Figure out your boundaries (e.g., confidently know when you’re ready to sleep with him/her)
- Look at best and worst case dating scenarios, and learn how to tackle worst case scenarios with impenetrable badassery
- Learn to trust your gut, get out of your head and be present, and understand the difference between chemistry and compatibility
- Examine what worked and didn’t work from past dating experiences (e.g., how to handle men intimidated by smart women)
- Make time for dating while in a busy STEM career
- Really challenge your GAILs (gremlins, assumptions, interpretations, and limiting beliefs) that might be holding you back from dating success
- Discover everlasting ways to rely on yourself (instead of a dating coach) when confronting future dating obstacles
- Discover what it really means to be the CEO of your love life
Whatever you need, we’ll work together to flex new muscles so you can save much time and energy and find what’s effective, efficient, and fun for you.
You’re paying for a best friend, a wing woman who also happens to be a dating expert, because dating, especially for STEM women, can be daunting and frustrating.
How it works:
- 8 sessions occurring bi-weekly, the first and last sessions being debriefs of the Energy Leadership Index (ELI) assessment (a one-of-a-kind attitudinal assessment) that you will take prior to those sessions to see how you show up to the world energetically at the beginning and end of our time together. Think of the ELI as a progress report.
- The first and last sessions will take up to two hours, while the 6 in between will take one hour.
- Includes all texts and emails in between sessions and notes/recordings during sessions.
- Bonus: After completing your 8 sessions, get lifetime access to free half-hour one-on-one coaching sessions with Holly once per month. You never know when you’ll need another dating pick-me-up!